Chayei Sara | “And the Lord Loved Him”
Dedicated in memory of Rabbi Jack Sable z”l and Ambassador Yehuda Avner z”l, by Debbie and David Sable
King
David was old, advanced in years, and though they covered him with
bedclothes, he never felt warm. His servants said to him, "Let a young
virgin be sought out for our lord the king, to wait upon the king and
become his companion; when she lies in your embrace, our lord the king
will feel warm." They searched throughout Israel’s borders for a
beautiful girl, found Avishag the Shunamite, and brought her to the
king. The girl was most beautiful, and she became the king’s companion
and served him, but the king was not intimate with her. Meanwhile,
Adoniya son of Chagit promoted himself, declaring, "I will become king,"
and he procured a chariot and riders and fifty men to run before him.
Now his father had never disciplined him, saying, "Why have you acted
like that?" He was born after Avshalom, and he too was devastatingly
handsome. He conspired with Yoav son of Tzeruya and Evyatar the priest,
and they lent their support to Adoniya. But Tzadok the priest, Benayahu
son of Yehoyada, Natan the prophet, Shimi and Rei, and David's warriors
were not on Adoniyahu's side. Adoniyahu sacrificed sheep, oxen, and
fatlings by the Zochelet Stone near the Rogel Spring, and he invited all
his brothers – the king's sons – and all the men of Yehuda, the king’s
subjects. But he did not invite the prophet Natan or Benayahu or the
warriors, or his brother Shlomo. And Natan said to Batsheva, Shlomo's
mother, "Have you heard? Adoniyahu the son of Chagit has become king
without our lord David's knowledge. Come now, let me give you advice –
to save your own life and the life of your son Shlomo. Go to King David
at once and say to him, 'My lord the king, did you not swear to your
handmaid, "Your son Shlomo will rule after me, and he will sit on my
throne"? Why, then, has Adoniyahu become king?' And while you are still
speaking there with the king, I will come in after you and confirm your
words." So Batsheva went to the king in the inner chamber – the king had
aged severely, and Avishag the Shunamite was tending to him – and
Batsheva bowed down low in homage to the king. "What is the matter?"
asked the king. "My lord," she said to him, "you swore by the Lord your
God to your handmaid, 'Your son Shlomo will rule after me, and he will
sit on my throne.' But now, look – Adoniya has become king – and you, my
lord the king, did not even know! He has sacrificed a wealth of oxen
and fatlings and sheep and invited all the king’s sons, the priest
Evyatar, and the army commander Yoav, but he did not invite your servant
Shlomo. But all the eyes of Israel look to you, my lord the king, to
tell them who will succeed my lord the king on his throne. Otherwise,
when my lord the king lies with his ancestors, my son Shlomo and I will
be considered offenders." And as she was still speaking with the king,
Natan the prophet arrived. "Here is Natan the prophet," they announced
to the king, and he came before the king and bowed to him with his face
to the ground. "My lord the king," said Natan, "Did you yourself say,
'Adoniyahu will be king after me, and he will sit on my throne'? For he
went down today and sacrificed a wealth of oxen, fatlings, and sheep and
invited all the king’s sons, the army officers, and Evyatar the priest.
And now they are feasting before him and toasting him and declaring,
'Long live King Adoniyahu!' But he did not invite me, your servant, or
the priest Tzadok, or Benayahu son of Yehoyada, or your servant Shlomo.
Could it be that my lord the king has decided this without informing
your servant who will succeed my lord the king on his throne?" "Summon
Batsheva to me," King David said in response, and she came before the
king and stood in the king’s presence. And the king swore an oath. "As
the Lord lives," he said, "who has rescued me from every danger, what I
swore to you by the Lord, God of Israel – that Shlomo your son will rule
after me, and that he will sit on my throne in my place – I shall
fulfill this very day." And Batsheva bowed her face to the ground in
royal homage and said, "May my lord, King David, live forever!" (I Melakhim 1:1-31)
I. The Connection Between the Parasha and the Haftara
The initial and obvious connection between the haftara and the parasha is a purely formal one: the haftara opens with the words "King David was old, advanced in years," which are similar to the words in the parasha – "Avraham was old, advanced in years" (Bereishit 24:1). However, this external connection is not very satisfying, and I would like to flesh it out.
Avraham's
advanced age brings him to seek a young woman as a partner and wife for
his son Yitzchak, and his servant (Eliezer) brings Rivka. David's
advanced age also brings his servants to seek a young woman to be with
him, and they bring him Avishag. However, the two events differ in two
ways that seem to unravel the similarity between them:
a. Avishag was not sought as a spouse for David, but as a servant/companion to make him feel warm.
b.
Avraham asked his servant to bring a partner for his son Yitzchak,
whereas David's servants bring Avishag to the elderly father.
Despite these two differences, similarities persist between the two episodes:
a. As will be argued at length below, Avishag was sought as a spouse for David, and not as a servant.
b. At the end of the episode (after our haftara and
after the death of David), David's son (who sees himself as his
father's designated heir), Adoniyahu son of Chagit, asks to marry
Avishag, just as Yitzchak son of Avraham married Rivka.
Another formal similarity (with no real content) is evident in the repetition of actions in the parasha and in the haftara.
The encounter between Avraham's servant and Rivka, the test involving
giving the man and his camels to drink, and more, are related in the
Torah twice – once when they happened, and a second time when Avraham's
servant tells the story to Rivka's family. So too, the story of the
feast prepared by Adoniya for the king's servants and the residents of
Jerusalem in recounted in detail in our haftara, repeated when Batsheva speaks to David, and included once again in the story told by Natan the prophet to David.
II. The Story of Avishag
The
proposal of David's servants, to secure him a young woman who will keep
him warm by lying next to him, as a substitute for a hearth or some
other reasonable heater, is unacceptable and cannot be understood
according to its plain sense.
When
a person gets old and his body heat does not suffice to keep him warm,
this is due to a slowing down of his blood's circulation and other
factors, which indicate, among other things, a gradual loss of his
reproductive powers. David's servants suggest to him at the last moment,
in a most respectful formulation, to take another wife, perhaps as a
concubine, so that she may bear him a son who will inherit his kingdom
after his death. Let us remember that this was the first time an heir
was to rule over Israel in place of his father, and there was great
cause for concern: Both Amnon the firstborn and Avshalom – who seemed
the most suitable to lead – had already died, and the other sons
probably did not seem suitable for the kingship, or their mothers did
not have a strong enough relationship with David. Let us take as an
example the next candidate in line – Adoniyahu son of Chagit. The way he
is described clearly illustrates how unfit he was for royalty. David
had indeed designated Shlomo, son of Batsheva, to reign in his place,
but this would not have been viewed favorably
by his top officials, because of David's grave sin with Batsheva.
Shlomo's very presence was a reminder of the sin that everyone wanted to
forget or obscure. Presumably, Batsheva was also not a favorite among
David's advisors and servants, for the same reason. The idea behind
their proposal was that the son of the young woman who would be taken to
the king would rule when he grew up, after David's death.
David,
already bedbound, received Avishag as someone who would nurse him in
his old age, but in no way as a wife or a concubine. Scripture
emphasizes: "But the king was not intimate with her." Why? Chazal (Sanhedrin 22a) suggest that he refrained from marrying her due to the prohibition, "he [the king] must not accumulate wives" (Devarim 17:17)
– because he had already married the number of wives allowed to a king.
I wish to offer another explanation: David could not accept the idea of
an heir other than Shlomo. This was his solemn oath to Batsheva, that
her son would reign after him, and this was his plan for additional
reasons, which will be discussed below.
Outside
David's room, things were probably interpreted differently, with the
fact that Avishag did not conceive understood as a sign that the aged
David had already lost his potency, and that the royal house would be
left without a suitable heir.
III. Adoniyahu’s Rebellion
Adoniyahu
son of Chagit took advantage of the opportunity created by the
presentation of David as one who was no longer capable of fathering a
child. Later, after Shlomo was made king and pardoned Adoniyahu from
being executed for his sin, the latter asked Batsheva to intercede on
his behalf and help get him permission to marry Avishag the Shunamite.
Batsheva agreed; knowing David, she saw Avishag as a nurse, and in the
terms of the Bible in our haftara –
a servant. She saw nothing wrong with Adoniyahu taking a servant as his
wife. However, King Shlomo understood the depth of Adoniyahu's scheme:
he knew that Adoniyahu was exploiting the rumor that David was supposed
to marry Avishag, and perhaps did marry her, but was unable to produce a
son from her. From his point of view and from the point of view of the
popular consciousness, if Adoniyahu had married Avishag, he would have
been marrying David's wife or concubine (as his predecessor Avshalom had
done, sleeping with his father's concubines as part of his rebellion).
Adoniyahu saw this as a means by which to advance himself to the
kingship.
Adoniyahu
also knew that Shlomo was not accepted by David's advisors, and that he
was not necessarily a more suitable heir than he, Adoniyahu, was. His
beauty gave him some advantage, and he saw an opportunity to seize the
kingship during David's lifetime, or at least to prepare the way to
reign after him. He behaved in his rebellion like Avshalom, about whom
it is stated:
It was after this that Avshalom procured for himself a chariot and horses and fifty men to run before him. (II Shmuel 15:1)
Both
for Avshalom and for Adoniyahu, this was a preliminary stage in
rebellion. When his father did not raise an objection, Adoniyahu moved
on to the next stage – consulting with Evyatar the priest and with Yoav
the army commander.
It
is not clear what brought Evyatar to support Adoniyahu, against King
David's position, even when it seemed that his opinion was shaky and
infirm. It is possible that tensions prevailed between the two senior
priests – Tzadok (from the house of Elazar son of Aharon) and Evyatar
(from the house of Itamar). This tension may have already manifested
when the Ark was returned to Jerusalem during Avshalom's rebellion (II Shmuel 15:24; and see Yoma 73b).
David had a blood covenant with Evyatar following the killing of
Evyatar's entire family in Nov, the city of the priests, which to a
certain degree was David's fault (see I Shmuel 22:22-23).
Against this covenant stood the prophecy of the man of God to Eli
regarding the destruction of his house due to the sins of his sons,
Chofni and Pinchas. Perhaps Evyatar hoped Adoniyahu would appoint him as
high priest if he helped him, through his role as a priest and
representative of the world of holiness, to secure the kingship. In the
end, when King Shlomo ruled as king and Adoniyahu was killed, Evyatar
was expelled from the priesthood, and the Bible emphasizes that all this
unfolded from God following the aforementioned prophecy:
As
for Evyatar the priest, the king said, "Go to your fields in Anatot.
Though you deserve to die, I will not have you killed at this time
because you bore the Ark of the Lord God before my father David and
because you suffered along with my father throughout all his suffering."
And Shlomo dismissed Evyatar from the role of priest to the Lord,
fulfilling what the Lord had pronounced for the house of Eli at Shilo. (I Melakhim 2:26-27)
As
mentioned, Yoav, commander of the army, also supported Adoniyahu. He
probably thought that Shlomo would appoint a different commander, and
the valor of Benayahu son of Yehoyada was already recognized in David's
court. Let us remember the history of Yoav’s standing: David had removed
Yoav from his position as commander after he killed Avshalom against
orders, and replaced him with Amasa the son of Yeter, who had been
Avshalom's commander-in-chief. Yoav killed Amasa on grounds that seem
more like an excuse, took command of the army of warriors from his
brother Avishai, and personally managed the pursuit of Sheva son of
Bikhri and the negotiations that led to his extradition. Following his
successes in the war against Avshalom's army and in the rebellion of
Sheva son of Bikhri, Yoav reappointed himself commander of David's army,
largely against David's will. On the eve of the change of regime, he
decided to support Adoniyahu so he could continue his term as
commander-in-chief.
In
the third stage, after David raised no objections in the first two
stages, Adoniyahu hosted a large and opulent feast for all his friends
and for the people of Jerusalem near Ein Rogel (further along the Kidron
stream, southeast of the Shiloach spring). There, according to the
account in our haftara,
the feasters, their hearts filled with wine, proclaimed, still in
David's lifetime, "Long live King Adoniyahu!" We do not find any kings
in Israel who ascended the throne through a feast, as was the practice
of the kings of other nations, until the days of Hoshea the son of Ela,
the last king of Israel, who brought the final destruction upon the
kingdom of Shomron. Regarding his ascent to the throne, the prophet
Hoshea said:
On the day of our king, officials make themselves ill from drinking skins of wine; he too joins his hand with scoffers. (Hoshea 7:5)
IV. Natan the Prophet and Batsheva the Mother of Shlomo
At
first glance, it is difficult to understand what brought the prophet of
God to intervene in such an active way in the internal politics of the
royal house and to do everything he could to thwart Adoniyahu's
coronation as king in favor of Shlomo. Let us first discuss the
complicated path that Natan chose to follow: He sent Batsheva to David,
and told her what to say to convince David to react harshly to
Adoniyahu’s actions. It seems that David’s response, which in the end
came late, had to be firm and unequivocal, and to result in David not
only protesting against Adoniyahu and his people, but making Shlomo king
on that very day, already in his lifetime, and thereby establishing a
reality that could no longer be disputed.
According
to Natan's plan, after Batsheva said her piece, Natan would go in to
see David – not in Batsheva's presence (see verse 28) – and say things
similar to what Batsheva had said to him. What is the meaning of this doubling?
Batsheva
demands of David that he act to save her and her son Shlomo from future
harassment by Adoniyahu. She also demands of him that he uphold his
oath to her not only by refraining from intimacy with Avishag, but also
by crowning her son as king, as he had sworn to her in their difficult
days. Let us remember that the first child born by Batsheva to David
died, in accordance with Natan's prophecy, when he was only seven days
old, despite David's prayer. In my opinion, Batsheva's next three sons
died as well – Shamoa, Natan, and Shovav – thus she lost four sons
because of what she did with David, in accordance with Natan's prophecy:
"As for the lamb, he must pay for it four times over" (II Shmuel 12:6). She remained with David while he was afflicted with leprosy, according to Chazal (Yoma 22b),
and became ostracized to a degree because of his sin. Then David swore
to her that her next son, Shlomo, would rule as king after him. Shlomo
was born after David's repentance and acceptance of his punishment. God
loved him, and Natan the prophet saw him as the chosen son:
And
she bore a son. She named him Shlomo, and the Lord loved him. And He
sent a message through the prophet Natan, naming him Yedidya, for the
Lord's sake. (II Shmuel 12:24-25)
From Batsheva's point of view, David's loyalty and his oath were now being put to the test.
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For this, Batsheva's coming to David would have been enough, but Natan's arrival completes an important point. Giving Shlomo a special
name "for the Lord's sake" expresses the prophet's expectations for the
new-born son as part of the process of David's repentance for his sin
and acceptance of God's punishment. Remember that Natan had made a
promise to David before his sin with Batsheva:
For
when your days are done and you lie with your ancestors, I will raise
up your own seed after you – the issue of your own loins – and I will
establish his kingdom. He will build a house in My name, and I will
firmly establish his royal throne forever. I will be a father to him, and he will be a son to Me… (II Shmuel 7:12-14)
This future son was Shlomo-Yedidya, and he was tasked with building a
House for God. David took upon himself the mission of educating Shlomo
and preparing him for his assigned role:
"My
son Shlomo is young and inexperienced," said David, "and the House to
be built for the Lord must be incomparably magnificent, of fame and
glory throughout all lands – I will now make preparations for it." And
so David made many preparations before his death, and he summoned his
son Shlomo and commanded him to build a House for the Lord, God of
Israel. "My son," David said to Shlomo, "I set my heart upon building a
House for the name of the Lord my God. But the word of the Lord came to
me, saying, 'You have shed much blood and waged mighty wars – you will
not build a House for My name, for you have shed too much blood upon the
earth before Me. Now a son has been born to you; he will be a man of
peace. I will give him rest from all his surrounding enemies, for Shlomo
will be his name, and I will grant peace and calm to Israel in his
time. He will build a House in My name; he will be a son to Me, and I a
Father to him, and I will establish his royal throne over Israel
forever.' Now, my son, may the Lord be with you so that you may succeed
in building the House of the Lord your God, as He spoke of you. But may
the Lord grant you wisdom and understanding and appoint you over Israel
in order to keep the Torah of the Lord your God. You will prosper if you
take care to keep the laws and rulings that the Lord commanded Moshe
for Israel. Be strong and brave; do not quake or cower. (I Divrei Ha-Yamim 22:5-13)
Divrei Ha-Yamim includes
many other verses that describe David teaching Shlomo how to build
God's Temple and explaining to him the magnitude of the task.
Furthermore, David educates his son to love God, to fear Him, and to
keep His commandments, so that he can succeed in fulfilling God's desire
that a Temple be built. It goes without saying that the Temple could
not be built by one without these qualities and values at the forefront,
and it is clear to Natan the prophet that Adoniyahu, with all the
elements of his personality, is in no way the right person for the task
of building the House of God. Even if God would allow Adoniyahu’s
kingdom to succeed, on the political side and in terms of Israel’s
standing among the surrounding nations – and even that is highly
doubtful – he certainly would not be able to lead the people along the
right spiritual path, to the world of holiness necessary for
construction and maintenance of the desired Temple. Natan embarks on a
determined struggle to fulfil the prophecy about building the House of
God, a resting place for the Shekhina, according to the vision he delivered to David (I Shmuel 7).
Natan
the prophet's reason for addressing the king after Batsheva was not
necessarily to add more details about Adoniyahu's rebellion. It was
intended to illustrate to David the urgency of the matter and the need
for his immediate response to Adoniyahu's act in order to maintain two
things – his loyalty and oath to Batsheva, and his loyalty to his desire
to build the Temple of God in Jerusalem.
(Translated by David Strauss)
